Sunday, September 19, 2010

Rejoicing in the unspoken yet understood connection of love

Bas ek mulaqat ki guzarish hai jahanpanah
ye manzoor ho jaaye tho baat ban jaye
was how my filmy request of a meeting went to him..

The desire to meet each other is the same on both the sides but he being he, will 1st make sure I'm alright, in a good condition to walk, fit and fine and can take the stress of getting out of the coziness of home
The concern has just shot up after the recent accident. (my baby becomes my father in such situations!!)
and its difficult not to listen to him or should I say 'obey' his orders.

He is OMG sweet and caring:
Today when we went out for our evening walk to buy groceries, we had to climb a flight of stairs to reach the store and since I've been strictly advised against any kind of stairs-usage by the doctor, I was in a fix. Well, I shouldnt have even wasted my time thinking about an alternative for, in a smooth sweep, his left hand went under my left arm, he tilted me towards him, supported and suddenly lifted me on his side and then placed on top of the stairs.. It hardly took 3-4 seconds. It was the same when we had to come down. It happened like it never happened. I could a lot of ppl on the road and from the shops nearby eyeing us but I was secretly enjoying the envy in the women's eyes for I'm sure they cannot even make their husbands do it to them even in their own dreams; and the thoughts crossing the men's minds if they should be doing it to their women :) Thankfully this time he dint (pull-my-leg type) tease me saying 'that doesnt mean you are not heavy' ;)

And then when we had to collect our shoes from the shoe stand after visiting the temple before we went to the grocery store, my shoes had a strap which I'd have to bend and strap it on. Very graciously as soon as I wore my shoes, he sat down and buckled my shoe even amidst all my protests :) Aiyo!! he doesnt care what ppl would think and goes beyond everything to help me and make sure I'm comfortable. I did notice a couple of stares filled with questions when he was helping me with my shoes. In a male society, where a female is supposed to serve.. she was being served by a male was the thought I'm sure was running in their minds. They were flabbergasted!

And here I was.. without even uttering a word my husband understands every thought that runs in my mind, acknowledges every feeling I have for him and responds to every expression of my feelings for him.

Reminds me of this song:

Jazbaat Jitne Hai Dil Mein 
Mere Hi Jaise Hai Woh Bezuban
Jo Tumse Main Kehna Payi 
Kehti Hai Woh Meri Khamoshiyan
Sun Sako To Suno Woh Jo Maine Kaha Nahin 
Sach To Hai Kehne Ko Ab Kuch Raha Nahin 


Its like I dont have to make the effort of opening my mouth to tell him anything. Its like there is this secret invisible connection b/w our minds that transfers our thoughts to each other.  Even though there is always a sizeable quantity of human species around us our words left unspoken do not go unheard..  Just a look and the unspoken perspectives/ opinions are understood, a raise of the eyebrows and the question understood, a glance around the hall to locate me among the sea of ppl and the concern understood, a turn of the head after bidding goodbye and the 'miss you' understood, a wink and the naughty thoughts running in the head captured.. ha ha ha.. and I can just go on and on about my love.. my pride.. my hero!






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